First of all, I have NOTHING against homosexual and bisexual people, but I'm tired of being confused with one just because I'm single...
Basically, I'm not interested in dating. Let's take a closer look, shall we?
1)I'm 14.
That alone should be enough. Seriously, I think I'm too young. If you have a significant other, aren't they supposed to be your romantic interest? I don't think that at such a young age one can be mature enough to experience love the way it should be felt for such a personal relationship. And everyone nowadays bases their choice on something I find pretty unnecessary, but still...
2)Physical attraction
Personality matters most, I agree, but everyone goes out with people they find "Hot" nowadays, which is pretty stupid. Even if I had to go out with someone just using that criteria, I would still be single. Is it just me or are all guys I happen to know/walk by/etc. pretty disgusting in all of the word's meanings?
3)I don't even know you
So there are two guys in my class. One is single, the other isn't. The one that's in a relationship, just offered the other one some girl's phone. When he refused he said "But she's up for it, you give her a call and you're set!". I was like WHAT. For real, I know some people go on blind dates, but I had never suspected there's a blind relationship as well. What the fudge?!
4)BehaviourSo another one of my classmates is in a relationship too. Every single break she calls her boyfriend. And then she starts.. "Where are you? Who are you with? I'M SURE THERE'S SOMEONE WITH YOU!!! WHO IS SHE?!!?! Fine. Yeah, I'm at school. WHO ARE YOU WITH?!" She's been doing that since school started, so I guess they met this summer, but if I was that boy, we would've only lasted a day. She pisses ME off, I can only imagine what the poor boy's going through.
5)You did WHAT?!
Ok. You kiss. No, you make out. Ok. I don't need to know. Really. I don't want to see photos of you doing it. I don't want to see photos of your tongues touching. I don't want to know how much saliva you exchange. No, no, no, and no. It makes me feel sick to see other people doing it, so even if I had a boyfriend, I'd let him down. No French kisses, no sex, no nothing. I'm gonna be a bad girlfriend.
6)Being single is much better
Last but not least, being single feels damn awesome. No one cares if your friends are boys or girls. No one cares if you've been to the mall with someone else. No one forces you to be with them 24/7. Oh, and no one uses the "DO MY HOMEWORK IF YOU LOVE ME, BABE" stuff on you.
And this also brings me to another topic, which would happen to be the one about Prince Charming...
As girls, we're all born to be princesses. How many of us keep that inner princess or ditch her is a different topic and a question of personal preference, so I won't be going into that. But the thing is, all of us at some point tend to fantasize about their "dream boy", who I'll call Prince Charming. He's different for every girl, but for most of us, he treats her the way we want to be treated, he shares her interests (to some extent) and is very beautiful.
Here, I think the words of Takemoto Novala would fit better...
Novala is amazing and I think what he says is absolutely truthful. No matter how kind anyone is to you, unless you feel love for him, you shouldn't settle for him. Only devote yourself to a person who makes you feel like he's your Prince Charming. Where I disagree with Novala, however is that you should go for no one but the one that fits your ideal. For example, my Prince Charming is indeed kind to me, but also he understands my feeling, is gentle to me, is artistic, believes in magic and miracles as much as I do, he's quite intelligent, he enjoys life to its fullest, loves animals, is tolerant, the list goes on.. He also has beautiful gray or blue eyes and long hair, is a bit taller than me and is a bit of an EGA/Dandy. Imagine my chance of meeting someone who looks like this, dresses in EGA/Dandy AND is all this mentally. Yeah, I thought the same too. If I found him, it would be wonderful, but what if I met someone who didn't match a lot of this, but he made my heart skip a beat and I got that butterfly feeling we all associate with love? Maybe that's my Prince Charming?
I prefer to settle for the one who I fall in love with and who makes me feel loved, not for someone who is kind to me, because he just has a crush on me. That is my Prince Charming. And I'm not looking for him. I know that one day, I'll just meet him, or I'll never find him at all, but fade away happy to know that I never settled for someone lower than my ideal.
By the way, what is your fairytale romance? Tell me in the comments, ok?
Mine is pretty tacky, ahaha.
I wish to lose my glass slipper as I fall down the rabbit hole, and when I'm absolutely lost in Wonderland, my Prince will arrive upon his flying carpet. He could just be as mad as
Lol, that's so cheesy.
But I don't care. Fairytales seem to be becoming more of a reality for me, because I've learned not to wait for a fairytale to happen to me, but to create my own fairytale~
~Princesse